Jesuuuus Tomsk! It sounds like you are living MY life!
I think you know that I wouldn't joke about that either. I mean, yes I can be a real PITA, but there are boundaries that I know not to cross.
Exact same stuff happened to me last year! lost my brother (best friend), lost my cat, kitchen flooded in the apartment above me destroying mine, car died, computer died, lost ALL my data... Sound familiar?
I hope things turn around for you soon.