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It's so easy to get worked up on a daily basis.If you want to find a reason to get annoyed,you will.If you want to find a reason to complain about someone or something,you will.If you want to see someone get on your nerves,you will.
There are countless opportunities thought out the day to get frustrated,disappointed or annoyed at people,places and situations around you.The challenge is,we don't see our lives as they are.We see our lives worse than they are.We shouldn't waste a second of our lives complaining because complaining doesn't solve problems,it attracts them.Whenever we complain about pain or strain or any situation in our lives we're stopping ourselves from change.
Not sure what sparked that, but personally I agree, there is too much negativity in life & not enough tolerance. That is a potentially destructive situation.
The easiest way to improve your perceptions is to find positives to focus on.
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Tolerance is what got us 3 shitty Star Wars movies, Crap fest Ghost Busters remake, puke poor Terminator reboot, A zillion laws that protect the criminal and remove rights from parents. Everyone is right so dont hurt anyones feelings or theyll be scarred for life. If you dont like my lifestyle just turn the other way. Soon fkin dogs will be a legal lifestyle right behind Pedophiles. Christianity takes the hit this year with Fkin Happy Holidays. Wouldnt want to offend suicide bombers. I got more if you want it.
Rank:@d0gg0d Do I detect negatively in your comment? You should focus on better things in your life.Your comment seems weird and lacking any purpose to positivity,you should perhaps rethink about what you said. 🙂
I'm with Adam. @d0gg0d fkin a
If you get worked up daily you got issues and need to seek help.
Complaining can be a positive thing. It can create and instigate change. Sometimes good, sometimes bad. The bad being the tolerance of what Adam mentioned AFTER the movies.. (Moneywood will never listen to fans unless their 12years old).BTW, Christmas has been taking hits for the past 10 years. Ya know what offends me? people who bitch about being offended. Freakin babies.
well, just yesterday, my only precious potato laptop got hit by bad sector disaster, most of my stuff is gone for the price to save the life of this potato, i'm pretty much want to complain and grief to my surrounding after several days of bad days that peaked with that disaster, but the weird thing is, yesterday, i'm not feeling angry or tilted at all even when the last 2 day before yesterday, i'm got triggered even by trivial mistake of other. As I kinda realize yesterday, complaining to others about thing that the people you complained to don't have the power to change or about something that they don't understand is just kinda trying to spread the negativity as you try to make others experience the same frustrating feeling,instead of making them know how to help you
Try living in the states and having a 'bright' outlook...
I come in here to get away from all the crap on facebook and just have fun looking around at what everybody's been posting, plus I usually get to play with a few new things in Studio and see what I can do with them. I really do try to have a [cough, cough] cheerful [cough] outlook, but sometimes you just can't bring yourself to chew through the restraints... 😀Rank:@tony0558 I understand it's hard sometimes,I'm not perfect I complain and get annoyed at times.But a lot of the info. I mentioned is just simple control and thinking before you say anything.Life doesn't have to be all bad,be grateful of what you have and think of all the other people that don't have anything, life is too short. 🙂
We should be all nice little boys and girls and whatever you decide to be classified as today. Sit in our corner and not say anything bad about the shyt show life really is because, it may pop someones bubble. Perhaps the people starving or maybe the sex slaves. Could even bother those with cancer at age 10. We all know how wonderful it is to hear you may die before your 30 year old mother. Lets turn a blind eye this year and pretend people dont have problems, since life has treated everyone equally and fairly. Merry Christmas.
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Human emotions are what they are. Its easy for one person to say suck it up to another thats down on their luck, or one that has a crappy life. Smile! Be happy! Keep a positive attitude!
ALL emotions are healthy, even the negative ones, to a certain degree. Excessive anything is bad.
Sometimes it good to vent. Get it out of your system. Like your post. Something was bothering you so you spoke out. You may not see it that way, but I put myself in your shoes and thats what I see. But its OK. You felt the need to vent. 🙂People are actively helping others daily with food and shelter. It especially happens when some people decide they want to feel good about themselves and get a tax right off near years end.
Venting and explaining reality to me are a bit different but may overlap I guess. "Feel Good" PVE Blue Server care bear feelings turn you off to the Red Severs PVP harsh reality.
You need both. If your arent an aggressive driver youll cause accidents and if your to aggressive you will also. Ask grandma doing 35 mph on the interstate. Everyone feels good at some point I hope but to pretend life is all peaches and rainbows is a mental disease. To think eveyone has your best interest in mind is gullible. To think all the money you give to clarity is used properly is stupid.@ethiopia if that works for you then awesome. If life is great, wonderful and amazing for you, then thats awesome too. You're one of the lucky ones.
Not everyone has that though.I agree with Mark that its pointless to let every little thing get to you. But I'm also taking it one step further and saying if thats the case, then that person needs to seek professional help in learning how to deal and cope. Because thats not normal and something is out of wack.
Adam is correct. We don't live in a utopian society. And its never going to happen. People deal with things in different ways.
My life isn't the same as some girls life that has been kidnapped and is being raped and abused by different men every day to make some asshole money.
Its not the same as a family living in a country where bombs are being dropped around them on a weekly basis, or gunfire in the streets daily.
Its not like a teen struggling to survive in the ghetto.
Yes those are extremes, but they are also reality, along with even more horrific lives. But even things that may not be a big deal to me, could be catastrophic for another because of the life they're living. So its good to have empathy for others.However, focusing on only the negativity is bad. I left Facebook because of all the negativity. It all became too overwhelming for me and I realized I was angry every day at something stupid someone said or how someone was acting. I did what was best for me. I also don't watch the news as much. Too depressing. Not burying my head in the sand, just monitoring my intake.
But that works for me, and me only. Others have to find what works best for them, if they want to.@d0gg0d I refuse to give money to charities. Its mostly a crock for people to make money on the backs of the needy.
Yael Eckstein with International Fellowship of Christians and Jews, makes at least $500k a year. Its probably up since her father died. Her father made $1.2 Mil a year. Must be nice to live the good life on the backs of the old people.
I won't even give money to beggars on corners, because most times its a scam and they make more money than I do on SSDI.
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